Kelly Flowers

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So This Is What My Life Looks Like.

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Snapchat. Oh snapchat. How else would I project a life that is way more interesting than the one I actually live?

Of course. Sometimes it’s pretty spot on, maybe too spot on. After taking a picture I often look at it and think, “Hmm. So that’s what my life looks like, huh?”

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Take this morsel of my snapchat story for example. (Why, you ask, am I spending my limited spare time on snapchat? To this I say, I have no idea. See second picture for further proof of this squandered nap-time hour.)

In my snap of novel editing, notice the fancy alphabet placemat and literary classic If You Give A Moose A Muffin. This is how you write like a Ninja.

This, I’ve come to accept, is a proper representation of where I’m at. Let’s just call it well-rounded. Mmm-kay?


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Write Like A Ninja – Without Giving Up Twitter

ninjaWriting Ninja Meets Social Media

Ok. So nobody here wastes time on the Internet, but if we did…

I love social media. I’m not one of those people that opines how dumb social media is and then secretly stays up till 2am in the sickly blue glow of their screen, creeping photos of their exes. (You know who you are)

But, let’s be honest, that’s kinda fun. No other forum feeds this base part of ourselves, the voyeurism part. That’s why I’ve always wanted to be invisible. Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, etc. are like invisible cloaks that allow you to spy on everyone else and maybe show an elbow or an ankle every now and then.

I have a Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, Pinterest, tumblr and LinkedIn, (arguably the most useful on this list and where I spend the least of my time, making my priorities pretty obvious). And like I said, I love them.

Not necessarily because I’m addicted to social media. (Noooooo) Continue reading


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A Cure For Your Wandering Eye – Be A Finisher

When I first started writing my book, it was intoxicating! I spent hours thinking about my characters and story and prattled on and on about it (…to my husband, because I was too much of a chicken to tell anyone else). I was excited, inspired, smitten.giphy2

Halfway through my first draft, the sparkle started to dull. Writing a novel became a chore; more of what it really is, which is damn hard work. And I started to cheat. I’m not proud of it, but I started giving my love, and spare time, to other projects.

I’ve always believed that there are two kinds of people: Starters and Finishers. I, along with many other right-brained, creative types, would consider myself a starter. That’s why business writing is a good fit for me. It’s generally served in bite-sized pieces.

With bigger projects, I begin with gusto, Continue reading


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Word Hoarding – How I Learned To Let It Go

Folkmanis-Pack-Rat-Puppet--pTRU1-6956404dtI’m a pack rat. But I’m an organized pack rat. Ok, Ok. I might also have a few hoarding tendencies. There. I said it. (Most pack rat/hoarders are also in denial. So, yay me.)

Luckily, because I am unwilling to part with my psychosis, I’ve developed techniques to manage it. For instance, I’m the master at Garage Box Tetris. I can fit more office supplies in a drawer than you would think possible. And closets, well actually, let’s not talk about closets.

It’s just that I still see value in lots of things I no longer need. And that counts for words too. Writing needs obvious focal points, right? The problem with word hoarders, like me, is that it’s hard to see the focal points because there’s too much junk in the way. You see where I’m going with this.  Continue reading


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Writer’s Block – How Not To Write

There are a few things I can be relied upon as a trusted, credible source.  writers-block

  1. Donuts (as previously stated)
  2. Game of Thrones
  3. The proper consistency of bacon

And

  1. Writers block

The only way to offer advice on writer’s block is to have suffered. And I HAVE suffered. Here is what works for me…

  1. Fake It – Just start typing.

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…And For My Next Trick, I Can Make An Hour Disappear!

nothing_productiveToday, I spent the better part of my writing time on Yelp. Yeah. Yelp. It’s called procrastination, people.

It started innocently enough, with a list item even. I wanted to Yelp my doula, who I adore. Then I thought “Well, while I’m here…” And so it began. An hour later, I had reviewed a couple places and people. But mostly, I spent the time reading other Yelp reviews. And I’ve come to a conclusion…  Continue reading


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Say Yes To The Dress

With my sister’s wedding on the docket, and me acting as wedding planner extraordinaire, I am particularly interested in all things matrimonial. Serendipitous that this project landed on my desk… Also a little surreal to see my model of a daughter in a wedding dress. Whoa.

You can read the entire article below or at Ranch and Coast Magazine.

The New ‘I Do’

Photography by Jody Lynn Photography, styling, hair & headpieces by Deena Von Yokes of Studio Savvy Salon, makeup by Eileen Haligowski of Mirror Mirror on the Wall, model is Lila Flowers of No Ties Management, vehicle is an original creation by local welder/creator, Vince Skandunas — photographed on location at Helix Brewing Co.

Couples are bucking traditional choices for the unconventional — in beauty, fashion, even location — in pursuit of creating a truly unique, personal affair that directly reflects their personalities. “Couples are aiming more for self-expression,” explains wardrobe and hair stylist Deena Von Yokes, of Studio Savvy, who captures the updated look of today’s bride, featuring bridal couture from The Bustle in Del Mar, at a spot that would have previously been an unexpected choice — Helix Brewing Co. — that exemplifies the new normal in wedding venues.

Bridal Beauty Notes

Beyond saying “yes” to the dress, hair and makeup styling play a major role in completing the final look for the big day.  

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Behind the scenes:

The photo shoot came together under the creative direction of Deena Von Yokes, owner of Studio Savvy in Rancho Santa Fe. “I had a vision for a timeless, classic look that incorporated some of today’s new wedding trends,” she says of the “on location” shoot. 

The New ‘I Do’On a balmy afternoon, Von Yokes buttoned up a tulip wedding gown on model Lila Flowers. She put a couple finishing touches on Lila’s blond curled tresses and stood back to review her work. What she had created was a timeless look, something that could just as easily be considered beautiful in the 1920s as it is today. Photographer Jody Pinchin, owner of Jody Lynn Photography, took a behind-the-scenes shot as patrons of Helix Brewing Co. looked on with a mixture of nostalgia and curiosity. Not a typical Sunday at the brewery. 

There was a time when weddings were a traditional affair, replete with ten-piece place settings, huge bridal parties in puffed sleeves, doilies, and Champagne towers. But today’s couples are opting to rewrite these traditions, utilizing a new spirit of organic whimsy and authenticity. Centerpieces have morphed from extravagant rose-filled crystal vases to wood-crated succulents; starched, linen tablecloths have been artfully replaced by burlap; wine glasses swapped out for mason jars. 

Breweries are fast climbing the ranks of social couture, rubbing shoulders with wineries in terms of atmosphere and loyal clientele. Helix Brewing Co., which opened its doors in August of 2015, features industrial chic décor and is becoming a hub for couples with upcoming nuptials, both for the big event and for rehearsal dinners and bachelor/bachelorette parties.Von Yokes chose the location because it embodies the individualism and no-frills beauty she envisioned. “These new wedding trends are simple and elegant, but in a rustic, organic way.”

The New ‘I Do’

“Today’s couples are aiming more for self-expression than societal norm,” Von Yokes explains. “So I thought a brewery was the perfect palate for that kind of offbeat expression. I couldn’t wait to put this shoot together.”

Alison Pasiut, owner of The Bustle in Del Mar, provided three bridal gowns for the shoot, chosen for their romantic, almost whimsical, couture. And the classic car in the photos? It is actually an original creation by local welder/creator, Vince Skandunas. In a blitz of inspiration, Von Yokes hailed the car, which happened to be driving by, and asked the owner if he would mind lending it as a pivotal prop for the photos. “It was that kind of synchronicity that made the shoot so much fun,” Von Yokes says. “Everyone was local talent, and key to producing the kind of magic that we captured in these shots.”

 


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The Writer’s Water Cooler – Having Some Goosebumps Nostalgia

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Last year was my first year attending SDSU Writer’s Conference. Great breakout sessions. Excellent speakers. I loved it! I’m so in for January.

Besides, I’m an R.L. Stine groupie. I was raised on that fine literature. Throwback… I think I had nightmares after this book. That is addictive writing, my friends. #Lifegoals

 

From… SDSU Writers’ Conference

Please plan to attend the 33rd Annual SDSU Writers’ Conference
January 20-22, 2017 at the
San Diego Marriott Mission Valley

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Whether you’re a beginning writer or a published professional, the San Diego State University Writers’ Conference is for you. Now in its 33rd year, this conference is designed to help every writer at every level. Learn how to improve your writing skills, develop your marketing awareness, and meet one-on-one with top editors and agents to facilitate the next step in your publishing career.

We are pleased to announce the keynote speakers for the 33rd Annual conference.

R.L. Stine is one of the best-selling children’s authors in history.

J.A. Jance is a top-10 New York Times bestselling author.

What to Expect 

  • Breakout Sessions: Fiction, Nonfiction, Career and Craft Panels, and More
  • Consultation and Advance Reading Appointments
  • No-Host Mixer
  • Networking Lunch
  • Saturday Evening Reception
  • Conference Choice Awards
If you are interested in being considered as a speaker for the 2017 SDSU Writers’ Conference, please complete the speaker interest form. Questions can be sent to directorsdsuwc@gmail.com.